这10句话一定不要对伴侣说！_BEC初级作文

这10句话一定不要对伴侣说！

6、“你是一个可怕的父母、谋生工具、情人……”

Put-downs centered around your spouse’s family or occupational roles are particularly cruel.

以你配偶的家庭或职业角色为中心的贬低行为非常残忍。

Negative statements about our self-identities are devastating. These roles are so important and tender. When they're questioned, we feel completely torn down. It becomes hard to forget statements like this.

针对我们自我身份给出负面的评论是毁灭性的。这些角色那么重要、那么脆弱。当它们被质疑的时候，我们会觉得被完全摧毁了。想忘掉这样的评论会很难。

7. "Ugh, I hate when you do that." (Said in front of friends or family.)

7、“唷！我不喜欢你那么做。”（当着朋友或家人的面说。）

Putting your spouse down in front of others is a huge no-no in a relationship. It causes resentment and a lack of trust.

在其他人面前贬低你的配偶是感情中的大禁忌。它会引起怨恨并会导致信任丧失。

8. "I barely know him — he's just someone I work with."

8、“我不大认识他——他只是我的同事。”

It's almost inevitable that you or your partner will develop a small, innocent crush on someone at some point during your marriage. If that happens, be upfront about it. Don't try to sweep it under the rug with a statement that minimizes your feelings.