Answer and then immediately pivot.
回答问题后立刻转移话题。
If you can pivot to something people will want to talk about, so much the better.
如果能转移到人们想谈论的话题上,那就再好不过了。
For example, your family member asks you "What should we do about Syrian refugees?" and you don't really want to get into a fight.
比如,家人问你;“我们该怎么应对叙利亚难民?”你真的不想引起争执的话。
"I think we should be a welcoming country. For example, Donald Trump is the son of an immigrant, and a couple of his wives are immigrants too. I think a more urgent problem is the decline of the American family, celebrity culture and throwaway marriages..."
就说:“我认为我们国家应该开放,比如唐纳德·特朗普是移民的儿子,他的几任夫人也都是移民。我觉得更紧迫的问题是美国家庭的衰退,名人文化和随意的婚姻……”
A great technique is just to use the connector "yes, and…." or "yes you’re absolutely right and….."—you can then alter the conversation as you wish.
有一招很好用,就是只说过渡语“是的,而且……”或“是的,你说的很对,而且……”,然后你就可以随意转移话题了。
By using such agreeable words, the brain is more likely to accept whatever comes next—it isn’t primed to critique or defend and is therefore much more accepting of a change.
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