Being slightly narcissistic is linked to having strong relationships
轻度自恋和稳固的感情关系存在联系
In "Rethinking Narcissism," Harvard Medical School psychologist Craig Malkin gives a definition of healthy narcissism: being able to move "seamlessly between self-absorption and caring attentiveness."
哈佛大学医学院心理学专家克雷格•马尔金在《反思自恋》一书中给“健康自恋”下了定义:能够在“专注自我和关怀体贴之间无缝切换”。
Malkin and a colleague developed the Narcissistic Spectrum Scale, on which two key indicators of healthy narcissism are responding "no" to the statements, "I like to dream big, but not at the expense of my relationships" and "I can rein myself in when people tell me I'm getting a big head."
他和一名同事研发了“自恋指数谱”,其中“健康自恋”的两个关键标志就是“两个不”:“我喜欢远大的梦想,但不会以我的感情关系为代价”、“当别人说我自以为是时,我可以控制自己”。
If you do score high on healthy narcissism, Malkin writes, you're likely to have an easy time giving and receiving emotional support, and to enjoy closeness and emotional intimacy.
马尔金写道,如果你的“健康自恋”得分很高,那么你可能很容易给予或获得情感支持,并且享受亲密关系。
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