A close friend of mine came to me recently.
我的一个很好的朋友最近来找我。
She said she felt tired. Really tired.
她说她觉得好累。真的好累。
Her family was starting to drive her crazy.
她的家人已经要把她逼疯了。
She wanted to live her own life. But her family always had some other plans for her.
她想过自己的生活。但她的家人总是为她安排了别的计划。
She has her own personality. But her family always wanted her to become someone else.
她有自己的个性,但她的家人总是希望她成为另外一个人。
And her choice was always to give in.
而她的选择,一直都是让步。
She doesn't want to hurt her family. So she chooses to compromise.
她不想伤害她的家人。所以她总是选择妥协。
And that's why she never felt happy.
这就是为什么她从来都不快乐。
I, on the other hand, am living a completely different life.
而另一方面,我过的是一种完全不同的生活。
I love my family. But I make my own dicisions.
我爱我的家人。但我自己做决定。
I am an independent individual. I have my boundaries that not even my family have the right to trespass .
我是一个独立的人。我有自己的权力边界,即使是家人也无权跨越。
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