Sure, you might think that if you were truly in love with someone, you wouldn't be able to have feelings for someone else. But sometimes this can actually happen - and it can be emotionally draining, as your heart gets pulled in two directions.
当然,你可能会想:如果你真的爱着某人,你是不可能对其他人有感觉的。但有时候这种情况的确会发生--如果两个人都在牵动着你的心,那你可能会觉得筋疲力尽。
Though, it is worth noting the difference between lust and love, as lust might represent more physical, sexual chemistry with a partner, and it's likely to be a more immediate, short-term affair. (Here's a guide to knowing if your love is real.)
虽然,了解欲望和爱之间的区别十分值得,因为欲望可能更注重与另一半在身体和性生活方面的契合,而且也更有可能是一种短暂的、瞬间即逝的婚外情。(跟着我们的指南,看看你是不是真的爱他/她吧。)
1. Slow Down
1. 别着急
"The feeling of being in love makes everything seem to feel urgent, quick-moving, and amplified. But if you're going to have to make a super tough decision here, and perhaps say goodbye to someone you feel you love - for their sake and yours, and to help ensure you make a wise decision - you really need to slow things down," he says.
"感觉自己恋爱了会让一切事情都显得那么急迫、快速以及放大。但如果你不得不做出一个特别困难的决定,也许要对你爱的人说再见--为了自己、为了他们,你一定要确保自己做出了明智的决定--你真的得放慢脚步,"他说道。
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