TRY THE TWO-MINUTE RULE

尝试"两分钟规则"

"Basically, anything can wait for two minutes. You have to pee? Got dinner cooking on the stove? Need to make an important phone call? Everything in life can wait for two minutes if it means making your spouse feel loved. So, when one of us calls for two minutes the other person has to stop whatever they are doing and we go find a place to alone together. For those two minutes you are not allowed to check a cell phone, answer a child, think of other tasks you need to do. At the end of the two minutes, either person has the right to say they need to get back to what they were doing and the other person can't be sad. We've been using this rule for over 10 years now and it's my favorite thing. Even our children know that when mom and daddy are having two minutes they cannot bug us."

"基本上，任何事情都可以再等2分钟。你想要上厕所？炉子上还烧着饭？需要打个重要电话？如果你需要让另一半感到被爱，那世上的任何事都可以等2分钟再去做。所以，如果我们当中的一个人要求有两分钟的时间，另一半就必须停下手上的事，然后我们会找一个地方独处。在这两分钟内，你不许看手机、孩子叫你你也不许答应、也不许想还有哪些工作要做。两分钟到后，任何一方都有权说他们需要做刚刚丢下的事情，而另一方不得感到难过。这个规则我们已经用了10年，这是我最喜欢做的事情。我们的孩子都知道，爸爸妈妈在一起的那两分钟是连他们都不能打扰的。"

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