就拿个简单的说:私人空间。芬兰人非常尊重彼此的私人空间。你可能已经看过这张关于芬兰人在公共汽车站等车的照片了,真的很有趣。
2 对话别对视
People do not like to make eye contact with strangers and, even when talking to friends and family, constant eye contact is not very common. It might be a sign of rudeness in other cultures not to look each other in the eye when talking—in Finland it is simply just the opposite.
人们不喜欢与陌生人进行眼神交流,即使在与朋友和家人交谈时,持续的眼神交流也不常见。在其他文化中,交谈时不直视对方的眼睛可能是粗鲁的表现——在芬兰,情况恰恰相反。
If you are standing too close to someone while talking you will notice that the other person is trying to get a bit further from you. You should notice and respect it and leave as much personal space for the other person so that he or she can feel comfortable.
如果你说话时站得离某人太近,你会注意到对方会试图离你更远一点。你应该注意并尊重这一点,给对方留下尽可能多的私人空间,让他/她感到舒适。
3 动口别动手
Also, touching strangers while talking to them might feel awkward to the other person. In more southern cultures it is acceptable, for example, to tap someone`s shoulder or hold his arm for a second as a sign of sympathy.
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