理解不仅仅只是你需要别人来理解你,根本就不是同路人为什么要逼迫别人理解你,难道是为了得到别人的同情和怜悯?这样作难道不会太悲哀了吗?于是,终日沉浸在观察别人对自己的态度之中,优柔寡断,碌碌无为。不再努力改造自己的生活,不再努力实现自己的价值,却只是追求理解。理解不是牵强的,是需要别人有和你相同的东西然后互相共鸣而产生的。就算不被理解,又有什么关系,只要我们能在某些方面理解了别人,想必别人也一定能理解你的吧。孔子很早就这么说过了,不担心别人呢不了解自己,只忧虑自己不理解别人。
Understanding is not only that you need others to understand you, but also that you are not a fellow traveler. Why do you force others to understand you? Is it to get sympathy and pity from others? Isn't it too sad to do so? So, all day long immersed in observing other people's attitude towards themselves, indecisive, mediocre. No longer strive to transform their lives, no longer strive to achieve their own values, but only to pursue understanding. Understanding is not far fetched, it needs others to have the same things with you and then resonate with each other. Even if we are not understood, it doesn't matter. As long as we can understand others in some aspects, surely others can understand you. Confucius had said so for a long time that he didn't worry about others and didn't know himself, but worried about himself and didn't understand others.
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