更一般地,如果其他人在彼此说话,却不打算把你包括在内的时候,你应该采取主动,努力把自己放进去。并没有规定说,你必须礼貌地等待,直到有人来点你的名问你对某事的意见。
Sometimes you just can't come up with something to say
有时,你就是无话可说了
These tips continue to help me, but at times my mind draws a blank. When you can't think of something to say, it's often due to shyness and inhibition interfering with your ability to think freely, and reducing these feelings is easier said than done.
这些小贴士一直在帮助我,然而有时我的大脑仍旧会一片空白。当你无话可说,它往往是由于羞涩和压抑感干扰了你自由地思考,而避免这些情感说起来容易做起来难。
The other usual explanation is when you honestly have nothing to contribute to the conversation (e.g., everyone is talking about old friends they have in common), and it's not appropriate to try and suddenly change it. But here everyone should at least understand that you can't be expected to be too chatty. Try to say something though when the topic changes.
其他常见的解释是:你确确实实拿不出能为谈话作出贡献的东西(例如,大家伙在谈论他们所共有的老朋友),而这时试图突然岔开话题又是不合适的。可是在这种情况下,每一个人至少都明白,不能期望你有太多话可说。所以,一旦话题变化,就试着说些什么吧。
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