--- Growth --- 成长
Growth from discontent is an amazing change. Again, comparing to the greenhouse, it can either smother you, or help you grow. However, change from discontent is something that you have to execute consciously, because discontent can also provide you with a safety zone. By accepting discontent in one part of your life, it can spread into other areas of your life. You can become satisfied with the feeling because it becomes familiar. However, you end up working on parts of your life in hopes of resolving the feeling when you find that, once that part of your life has changed, you still feel the same.
从不满意中成长是一个令人惊奇的改变。同样用温室来比较,它可以去令你窒息;又可以帮助你成长。不过,由于不满的变化是要你有意识去执行的,因为不满还能提供给你一个舒适区。通过接受不满为生活中的一部分,不满就会漫及你的生活中其它方面。你可能对不满的感觉一直感到”满意“为止因为它变得熟悉。不过,最终你会从生活各个部分中去努力要解决这个感觉,此时你就会发现当某个部分变化了,你却还是同样的感受。
Growth occurs because you feel a push, or pull, to move in a direction. The objective is to obtain a balance such that the discontent disappears. Once you achieve the necessary change, you will be able to leave the discontented feelings behind you. Focus on the situation that makes you feel the discontent, not on other issues that may, or may not, make you feel better. The contented feeling from "doing busy work" or fixing something that isn't broken is fleeting, unless you tackle the core issue.
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