在工作中,太“善解人意“可不是什么好事,最后你会发现你会被自己的善心所带来的工作压死的。另外,自信也很重要,对自己有信心,别人才能对你有信心。
Avoid being overly empathetic.
不要过于善解人意
There's another reason nice people take on too much work: They are overly empathetic. Perhaps your best work friend always turns to you when she's overwhelmed. While she doesn't directly ask you for help, you end up offering anyway, even when you already have several balls in the air. After all, you hate to see her so stressed out. Next time this happens, pause before you offer assistance. It's often enough to lend an ear and offer encouragement without jumping into action. Practice listening more and acting less.
“大好人”会做太多的工作还有一个原因:他们过于善解人意了。也许你工作中最好的朋友总会在喘不过气的时候向你寻求帮助。虽然她不会直接要你帮忙,但是你最终还是帮了,即便这时候你也是忙得不可开交。毕竟你不愿意看到她顶着那么大的压力。下次出现这种情况时,在你要提供帮助的时候先停一停。通常情况下,倾听和鼓舞对方就足够了,不用自己采取行动。多倾听,少揽活。
Exude confidence.
表现出自信
Whether you're talking to a manager or a coworker, be succinct and direct. Nice people frequently feel the need to justify their thought processes by describing them in excruciating detail. But no one wants to sit through a 10-minute explanation as you slowly get to your point. The truth is there's no need to overexplain. The person you're talking to will ask for clarification if he or she needs it.
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