The soft decision is never a real option, as many women find. Pat had to deal with a colleague who had repeatedly been warned about her absenteeism, and now had to be told to go. When Pat tried to fire her, the colleague was so distraught, Pat gave her another chance.
而很多女性也发现,不痛不痒的决定其实不能解决问题。帕特就得面对这么一位同事,她因旷工已经被警告多次,最后还被勒令辞职。那同事知道自己要被炒鱿鱼时表现得非常激动,帕特一时不忍给了她第二次机会。
"It was a disaster," Pat says. "I had fired her and she'd walked away from it. My colleagues were resentful. I lost their respect, my bosses' and my own. And I still had to deal with her in the end!"
帕特承认说:“这真是一场灾难,我已经炒了她,她却毫发无伤地留了下来!其他同事都很有意见,我一下子失去了他们对我的支持,同时失去的还有上司对我和我对自己的信任。这还不算,到头来我还得面对那个同事。”
We're aware from day one in our first job that every decision we make is either a building block or a stumbling block on our career path. We should use the time to lay the groundwork of future respect by being professional, responsible, innovative, diligent and reliable.
我们在第一天工作的时候就很清楚我们做出的每一个决定都意义重大,会影响我们未来事业的发展,要么添砖加瓦,要么成为自己事业的绊脚石。我们因此应该在自己的专业领域兢兢业业,为自己将来的事业打下坚实的基础,成为一个专业、负责、创新、勤勉、值得信赖的人。
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