Osteen did not overcome his fear for a long time. The conversations he heard didn’t help. “I overheard two ladies say, ‘he’s not as good as his father.’ I was already insecure and—boom—another negative label.” Words, he says, are like seeds.
奥斯汀在很长一段时间内都不能克服恐惧感。而对他的各种谈话也毫无帮助。“我无意中听见两个女士说,‘他不像他父亲那样优秀。’我已经感到很恐惧了,而又被贴上了负面的标签。”他说,说出的话就像种子。
If you dwell on them long enough they take root and you will become what those words say you’ll become—if you let them. Osteen says negative labels—the ones people place on us and the labels we place on ourselves— prevent us from reaching our potential.
如果你播种的时间足够长,它们就会发芽生长;同样,如果你放任不管,你就会成为别人话中的样子。奥斯汀说那些别人贴在我们身上和我们贴在别人身上的负面的标签都会阻碍我们发挥出自己的潜能。
You can’t control what other people say about you, like the two ladies that Osteen overheard, but you can control how you frame those comments and you can most certainly control the things you tell yourself.
你不能控制其他人对你的评论,就像奥斯汀偶然听到的那两个女士的话一样,但是你可以控制你自己如何看待这些评论,而且你肯定可以控制你对你自己说的话。
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