Everyone has a huge personal goal they want to accomplish--a big, challenging, amazing goal. They think about it, dream about it, obsess about it... but they never accomplish it.
每个人都有一个梦想达成的个人目标——一个远大的、具有挑战性的、惊人的目标。他们对此朝思暮想、辗转反侧、为之入迷……但是,他们从来都未能达成这个目标。
That could be because they also talk about it.
这也许是因为他们总是在谈论自己的目标。
According to studies like this one, people who talk about their intentions are less likely to follow through on those intentions.
研究表示,那些总是谈论自己想法的人更不容易践行这些想法。
Say you want to thru-hike the Appalachian Trail, a grueling five- to seven-month trek from Georgia to Maine.
假设你想去阿巴拉契亚山道远足,这是一段长达5到7个月,从乔治亚州到缅因州的长途旅程。
You're having dinner with friends, and you tell them about it.
你和朋友吃饭时,告诉了他们这个想法。
"Oh, wow!" one exclaims. "That sounds amazing. But won't it be super hard?"
“哇哦!”一位朋友惊呼,“听上去太棒了!但一定会非常困难吧?”
Indeed it will, you say, and you share what you know about tent sites, shelters, too-occasional showers, and the cool trail name you'll get.
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