6. See your work in terms of progress, not perfection.
6. 把工作看成进步的方法,而不是追求完美。
We all approach the goals we pursue with one of two mindsets: what I call the Be-Good mindset, where the focus is on proving that you have a lot of ability and that you already know what you're doing, and the Get-Better mindset, where the focus is on developing your ability and learning new skills. You can think of it as the difference between wanting to show that you are smart versus wanting to get smarter.
我们都用两种心态达成目标:一种被我称为“把事情做好”的心态,主要用来证明你有能力,也已经知道如何做了。另一种是“将来可以更好”的心态,主要目的在提高能力和学习新技能上。你可以想想“展现自己的聪慧”和“让自己更聪慧”的差别。
When you have a Be-Good mindset, you expect to be able to do everything perfectly right out of the gate, and you constantly (often unconsciously) compare yourself to other people. You quickly start to doubt your ability when things don't go smoothly, and this creates a lot of stress and anxiety. Ironically, worrying about your ability makes you much more likely to ultimately fail.
当你有“把事情做好”的心态,你希望每件事都能做得完美、恰如其分,而且一直(经常是无意识地)把自己和其他人做比较。当事情不顺时,你很快开始怀疑自己的能力,这将造成很大的压力和焦虑。讽刺的是,担心自己能力会让你更有可能失败。
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