7 – Stop Complaining
7 –停止抱怨
We all have problems, and sometimes we need to vent to someone. That’s acceptable, but pay attention to how often you’re venting. We all love helping our friends and family, but when all you get from someone is negativity, it’s easier to cut them off than help, especially if they’re always complaining about the same things.
我们都会遇到问题,有时候我们需要向别人倾诉。那是可以接受的,但是要注意你是怎么倾诉的。我们都喜欢帮助我们的朋友跟家人,但是如果你从别人那里听到的全是悲观的东西,那打垮他们比帮助他们要简单得多,尤其是他们总是在抱怨同样的事情的时候。
8 – Stop Being Selfish
8– 不要那么自私
If you only think about yourself, you’ll soon find yourself by yourself. Stop for a minute and think about how your actions affect other people – did you take the last cup of coffee from the break room? Refill it! Do you live with others? Don’t drink out the milk carton. We share this world 100% of the time, so every action you take can affect other people.
如果你以自我为中心,你就只会看到你自己。用一分钟来想想你的行为是怎么影响别人的—你有没有把休息室里的最后一杯咖啡喝掉了?再把它装满!你是不是跟别人住的?别把盒子里的牛奶喝光。所有的时间里,我们都在同时分享着这个世界,所以你的每一种行为都能影响到其他人。
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