同在纽约的卡伦·比格曼被称为“divorcierge”，收费约为每小时95美元。她这样描述这份工作：“我们帮助（客户）了解他们面临的选择。我们可以提供意见，帮忙制定计划，指导他们度过艰难的时期、与律师和财务顾问等离婚方面的专业人士会面。”

A divorce coach may help clients plan ahead for legal meetings to maximise efficiency. Despite the number of marriages that break down, divorce still has a stigma. The issues tackled include how to talk to a child about separation (heaps of reassurance, make them feel loved and make sure they know that it is not their fault; nor should you treat them as a go-between or a therapist); how to hand your child over to your ex; how to move on and forge a single life.

离婚指导师能帮助客户提前为他们与法律人士的会面拟定计划，以使效率最大化。尽管破裂的婚姻很多，离婚依然是一件让人有耻辱感的事情。离婚指导师的项目解决的问题包括，如何和孩子谈论离婚（大量抚慰、让他们感觉自己是被爱着的、确保他们知道父母离婚不是他们的错；不应该把孩子当做中间人或者心理治疗师）？如何把你的孩子托付给前任？如何继续前进，经营一种单身生活？

One issue many divorcing persons seem to suffer from, she says, is remaining stuck in the past. "We create little stepping stones, for example, making them commit to going out, rather than hide under the duvet," a divorce coach said.

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