3. You dont talk

　　你们不交流

　　Too many people hold their tongues about things that bother or upset them in their relationship, either because they dont want to hurt their partner, or because theyre trying to win. Ultimately, keeping quiet reflects a lack of trust and, as I said thats the death of a relationship.

　　太多的人沉默无言，对感情中让他们烦恼或者不安的细节只字不提，也许是因为不想伤害对方，也许是因为太想要赢而不愿意示弱。缄默不语其实是缺乏信任的表现，这是爱情的死穴。

　　4. You dont listen

　　你们不倾听

　　Listening really listening is hard. Its normal to want to defend ourselves when we hear something that seems like criticism, so instead of really hearing someone out, we interrupt to explain or excuse ourselves, or we turn inward to prepare our defense. If you cant listen actively, at least to the person you love, theres a problem.

　　真正的倾听很难。听到类似批评的话语时，我们想要为自己辩护，这很正常，所以我们不听对方把话说完就开始打断，解释，为自己找借口，或者在心中准备防守。如果对你爱的人你都无法主动倾听，那就有问题了。

　　5. You spend like a single person

　　你还像个单身的人过活

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