雅思双语阅读:十大杀招毁灭了你们的爱情
导读:每个人都每个人的脾气秉性,相爱并不是那么容易,想要维系和恋人、伴侣或爱人的感情则更加困难。下面这十种情况,最容易摧毁你们的爱情。
1.Youre playing to win
你们总是想要赢对方
One of the deadliest killers of relationships is the competitive urge, the attitude that the relationship itself is a kind of game that youre tying to win. People in competitive relationships are always looking for an advantage, the upper hand, some edge they can hold over their partners head.
爱情的一大致命杀手就是竞争欲望:把感情当作比赛,总是想要赢过对方。处在竞争关系中的人总是想要寻找自己的优势,占尽上风,尽握对方的把柄。
2.You dont trust
你们不信任彼此
There are two aspects of trust that are important in relationships. One is trusting your partner enough to know that s/he wont cheat on you or otherwise hurt you and to know that he or she trusts you that way, too. The other is trusting them enough to know they wont leave you or stop loving you no matter what you do or say.
感情的信任包括两层含义:足够信任你的伴侣,明白他不会欺骗也不会伤害你,同时也了解他也是如此的信任着你;足够信任你的爱人,明白不管你说什么做什么,他都不会离开或者不再爱你。
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