Before starting with the criticism, warm the person up with compliments. If you are discussing their work, find several things you truly like about what they have done. For example, I enjoyed your presentation today. You presented a lot of good and helpful information in it, and I can tell you put a lot of effort into it. I appreciate your hard work. This will lower their defenses and make them feel appreciated.
说些和蔼赞美的话
在给予批评以前,先说一些赞美的话给对方暖身暖身。如果你正在探讨他人的工作,找一些你真的喜欢他们所做过的事。例如:I enjoyed your presentation today. You presented a lot of good and helpful information in it, and I can tell you put a lot of effort into it. I appreciate your hard work.这将减少他们的防卫自己并让他们有欣慰之意。
Dont continue with but
However, a short, vague compliment followed by but such as It was a helpful talk, but you really need to improve your presentation skills wont do much to help the process. After youve shared your compliments, allow them time to be absorbed. Immediately following your compliment with a but will destroy all youve tried to accomplish by making your praise seem false and insincere.
切勿使用but
不管如何,由一些but的简短模糊赞美,像是:It was a helpful talk, but you really need to improve your presentation skills.将对于事情不会有太大的帮助。在你已经分享你的赞美之后,允许他们有吸收它的时间。立刻接着马上
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