何况,如果你还单身,或许身边不缺朋友。较之于已婚人士而言,单身人士花更多时间跟朋友呆在一起,经常参加志愿活动,也更热衷于社区事务。基本上,从未结婚或离婚女人要比已婚女人更快乐。所以,不要去相信那种单身可悲可怜的鬼话!
4. Dont Take Your Ideas about Gender and Marriage Too Seriously
不要将性别与婚姻看得太死板
If you do get married, be both principled and flexible. Relationship satisfaction, financial security, and happy kids are more strongly related to the ability to adapt in the face of lifes challenges than any particular way of organizing families. The most functional families are ones that can bend. So partnering with someone who thinks that one partner should support their families and the other should take responsibility for the house and children is a recipe for disaster. So is being equally rigid about non-traditional divisions of labor. Its okay to have ideas about how to organize your family and, for the love of god, please talk about both your ideals and fallback positions on this but your best bet for happiness is to be flexible.
如果你已经结婚,那么既应该有所原则,又需要灵活应变。关系和谐、经济保障、子女快乐等,更大程度上依赖于适应生活挑战的能力,而非死抓着原则不放。最和谐的家庭是能够灵活应变的家庭。如果伴侣觉得,一个人应该负责养家糊口,另一个人应该看家带孩子的话,那简直太可怕了。家务活分配方面的刻板观念同样如此。当然,在组织家庭方面有点想法无可厚非,而且,看在彼此相爱的份上,还是商量一下两个人的想法和底线为好。不过,最后只有灵活应变才能真正幸福。
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