When couples experience conflict, they are 45 percent less likely to feel pessimistic about their relationship if they can recognize feelings of caring from their partner during the disagreement. – Ebesu Hubbard 2001
夫妻之间吵架时,如果能够意识到对方对自己的关心,他们对情感关系的悲观态度就会减少45%。—易北苏·哈伯德在2001年讲道
2. Keep It Real
2. 保持情感的真实
Do you expect a fairy tale relationship? That’s a prescription for disappointment.
你想要童话般的感情吗?那会是失望的开始。
Elements of fairy tales such as Cinderella were present in 78 percent of people’s beliefs about romantic love. Those people were more likely to have experienced disillusionment, devastation, and angst in their relationships than were those who gave less credence to fairy tales. – Lockhart 2000
如《灰姑娘》一类的童话元素占据了78%的人们对浪漫爱情的信仰。和不那么相信童话的人们相比,这些人更可能经历情感中的幻灭、破裂和焦虑。——洛克哈特
The modern day equivalent of fairy tales is TV. And as you might expect, watching too much TV is correlated with unsatisfying relationships.
现代生活中,和童话扮演同样角色的,是电视。正如你所预期,沉迷于电视和对情感关系的不满意是相关联的。
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