Having similar values offers a huge boost in the ability to communicate.
相似的价值观能够极大地促进交流。
The degree to which couples have similar values does not change over the course of their relationship. Those with similar values, however, are 22 percent more likely to rate their communication habits positively. – Acitelli, Kenny, and Weiner 2001
伴侣双方价值观的相似程度在相处过程中是不变的。然而,价值观相似的两个人有22%更高的可能性会正面评价他们的交流习惯。——阿塞特利,肯尼和韦纳在2001年讲道
Believe it or not, even having similar fighting styles was a good thing.
信不信由你——甚至有相似的争吵风格也是好事噢!
It was related to double digit drops in conflict and a double digit increase in satisfaction.
有较多相似之处的夫妇会让争吵降低两位数,让满意度增加两位数噢!
5. Review
5. 不断回顾和提升
Many people are probably reading this, identifying the good things they already do and feelingsmug. Sorry, you can’t stop there. Relationships are not a “check the box and you’re done” kind of thing. You need to keep at it, monitoring and improving.
很多人在读这篇文章的时候,看到了他们已经做到的好的方面,可能正在飘飘然呢。不好意思,这些还不够!感情不是“给答题框打个勾就搞定”的事情。你需要保持下去,悉心经营,同时不断提升。
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