Want your marriage to last more than 30 years? Just “being married” isn’t enough: you also need to be good friends.
想要婚姻长过30年?只是“结婚”并不够:你们也要成为好朋友。
In studies of people happily married more than three decades, the quality of friendship between the partners was the single most frequently cited factor in the relationships’ success. – Bachand and Caron 2001
研究发现,夫妇之间的深厚友谊被视为超过30年美满婚姻的唯一最常见因素。—巴尚和卡隆在2001年讲道。
4. Relate
4. 两人有共同点
Opposites do not attract. Couples that are similar do much better. Pairs that lasted longer than five years usually had a number of interests in common.
对立的两人不会互相吸引。相似的两人感情会更好。在一起长达五年以上的两个人通常有很多共同的兴趣。
In comparing couples who remained together more than five years with couples who split up, researchers found that the couples who stayed together were 64 percent more likely to be able to identify multiple shared interests. – Bachand and Caron 2001
研究人员发现,当比较在一起五年以上小两口和分手的情侣时,情感长久的伴侣们发现双方多个共同兴趣的可能性高64%。—巴尚和卡隆在2001年讲道
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