4. “We need to talk.”
4、"我们谈谈。"
No four words strike fear into a married man’s heart quite like “we need to talk.” The phrase is often a signal that the wife has complaints or criticism about the husband.
没有哪四个字比“我们谈谈”更让已婚男性害怕的了。这句话通常显示妻子对丈夫有抱怨和批评之意。
5. “Man up.”
5、"男人一点。"
Telling your spouse to ‘man up’ is a brutal attack on his core identity.It’s a statement loaded with contempt and shame and could create relationship damage that will be difficult to heal.
叫你的配偶“男人一点”就是粗暴攻击他的核心身份。这句话满是鄙夷和羞辱,会引发关系破裂、难以修复。
6. “Pick up after yourself. I’m not your mother.”
6、"自己收拾干净,我又不是你妈。"
Many men are sensitive about their relationship with their mother, so suggesting he still wants or needs his mom is not a way to encourage him to change behavior you don’t like.
许多男人对母子关系很敏感,所以若希望他改变你不待见的行为,暗示他还需要妈妈并不是什么好方法。
7. “You never, you should have, you ought to...”
7、"你从来就不该这样,你应该..."
It’s much better to say, ‘I’d appreciate it if you would empty the dishwasher tonight. And when he does, thank him and you can expect more help in the future.
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