It's pretty safe to say that we'd all like to come across as well-informed, knowledgeable, and smart. Society values experts and rewards them, so we benefit when we're seen as having a certain level of command in what we do and what we speak about. While it's certainly positive to better ourselves in this regard, it can be a dangerous path to go down if we're focused too much on perceived expertise and intelligence during our interactions with others.
我们都喜欢给人留下见多识广、知识渊博、聪明睿智的印象,这一点不假。我们的社会重视专家,而且专家也能得到回报。因此,当我们在自己所做、所谈的领域有两把刷子的时候,我们是能够得到好处的。在这个方向上不断精进当然是个好事,但是,如果在于别人沟通的过程中太过强调自己的专业程度与智力优越感,那就很危险了。
As we seek to better ourselves in our fields of work, we may notice our vocabulary shifting to defend our newfound status. We don't admit our shortcomings for fear of becoming vulnerable to criticism, and we stop acknowledging others to preserve our own ranking. However, what this behavior turns one into is not an expert but a know-it-all. To avoid becoming the latter, make a conscious effort to continue to implement the following three phrases into your daily interactions. True experts who know their value and don't question their own intelligence use these phrases regularly. It doesn't make them sound unsure or unreliable, it makes them sound smart.
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