第三,快乐的配偶会让他们伴侣的生活更容易,因为他们的伴侣不用因为他们最亲密的伴侣总是处在一个坏心情而感到压力,也不会因为长久生活在压力之下或抑制努力让伴侣开心而精疲力尽。
The study adjusted for gender, wealth and educational attainment and also for people who were desperately ill or whose partners were, which would obviously have a big impact on happiness.
这项研究后来根据性别、财富和教育程度,以及那些得了重病或伴侣得了重病的人做了调整,这些因素显然对幸福有很大的影响。
Surprisingly, there was no difference in these outcomes between husbands and wives. “There’s a sense that women’s manage their husbands’ health, but it appears that the amount your spouse’s happiness affects your health doesn’t vary across gender,” says Chopik.
令人惊讶的是,男女之间的结果出来并没有什么不同。”Chopik说:“有一种感觉是,女性管理着自己丈夫的健康,但现在看来,你的配偶的幸福对你健康的影响的程度的大小不因性别而不同。“
It’s hard to know what moral to draw from the study—apart from try to marry a happy person—since the stress of trying to figure out how to improve your spouse’s mood may well undo all the beneficial effects of having a happy spouse. Chopik has a workaround. “Relationship satisfaction between couples is one of the largest predictors of happiness,” he says. So instead of trying to figure out what’s up with him or her, he suggests working out what’s up with the two of you.
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