在否认罪行的过程中,人们经常会因为责任或责备需要给予他的想法、选择以长的、有力的辩护。他们可能会尽力让自己相信,他们自己只是听众,实际上,他们的声音和肢体语言会败露一切。
6. They avoid the word 'I'
6.他们会故意避开“我”这个称呼
Liars instinctively want to distance themselves from both the lie and the situation. They often use passive phrasing, avoid discussion of their personal thoughts or feelings, and choose third person pronouns. If the untruth focuses on someone else, this gives more plausible deniability.
撒谎者们会本能地想要让自己与谎言以及当时的情形划清界限。他们经常使用被动短语,避开他们个人想法和感觉的交流,并且会选用第三人称。如果谎言集中于另一个人身上,这就给予了更多的貌似合理的推诿借口。
7. Your gut is telling you something is off
7.你的直觉会暗示到你
The truth is that most people have better success identifying lies vs. truths when they rely on instinct. Perhaps there is a natural sensitivity because most people lie in some form or another?
事实是,在对于区别谎言和真相的事情上,大部分人的直觉还是很灵的。也许是因为本能,或者是不是因为大部分人撒谎时都会以某种形式或者什么其他的呢?
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