英语听力：谢丽尔·桑德伯格巴纳德女子学院演讲(视频)_高中英语语法

英语听力：谢丽尔·桑德伯格巴纳德女子学院演讲(视频)

You should also know that there are external forces out there that are holding you back from really owning your success. Studies have shown—and yes, I kind of like studies—that success and likeability are positively correlated for men and negatively correlated for women. This means that as men get more successful and powerful, both men and women like them better. As women get more powerful and successful, everyone, including women, likes them less.

你还得做好心理准备去迎接各种阻碍你获得真正成功的外部压力。研究表明——男性的成功指数与魅力成正比，而女性则恰恰相反。这意味着，当男性越来越成功、有权有势时，其他的男人和女人会更加喜欢他；而当一个女性更加成功并拥有更多权力的时候，无论是男人还是女人，都会越来越不喜欢她。

I’ve experienced this firsthand. When I first joined Facebook, there was a well-read blog out in the Valley that devoted some incredibly serious pixelsto trashing me. Anonymous sources called me a liar, two-faced, about to ruin Facebook forever. I cried some when I was alone, I lost a bunch of sleep. Then I told myself it didn’t matter. Then everyone else told me it didn’t matter, which just reminded me of one thing: they were reading it too. I fantasized about all kinds of rejoinders, but in the end, my best and only response was just to do my job and do it well. When Facebook’s performance improved, the trash talk went away.