Allowing positive experiences to define, confine, refine, and outshine you may cause you to be caught up in the past and unable to truly live in the present. Whether your history is positive, negative, or somewhere in between, don't hone in on the negative experiences and let it reflect your current behavior.
让有积极意义的体验来定义、限制、提升、凸显你自己,你可能会因此陷入过去的泥淖,无法活在当下。无论你的过去是积极乐观的、消极抑郁的,或是介于两者之间,不要沉浸在过去不好的经历中,让它影响你现在的行为。
4. The cleanliness of your car/home/work space
汽车/家/工作场所的整洁度
When everyone gets in the car, you realize your Starbucks bag are still on the floor. So what? Think about it this way: everyone has a "messy" aspect of their life. Maybe their home is spotless, but the relationship with their spouse is messy. Someone's car gets washed once a week, but his/her work life could use some help. No one on Earth lives a perfectly "clean" life in every aspect. We don't apologize to others about our personal pitfalls. By being outwardly embarrassed, it only brings more attention to the fact!
当别人到你车里的时候,你才意识到星巴克的袋子还在里面。那又怎样?这样想:每个人在生活中都会有一个不太整洁的地方。也许他家纤尘不染,但是夫妻关系一团乱麻。有些人的车子每周清洁一次,但是他们的工作可能就需要别人的帮助。世上没人能在生活的各个方面都做到洁净无瑕。我们不必因为自己的缺陷向别人道歉。你表现出的尴尬只会更容易引起别人的注意。
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