If you as a man don’t spend anytime at home with the kids and don’t do any household chores, you get heavily criticized for being such a heartless and inconsiderate father and husband.
If you spend the time taking care of kids and doing all the household chores, you get heavily criticized also, for being such a worthless man – apparently having no chance at greater success in the world at large.
That’s an exaggeration, but you get the idea. Women have it better, both ways. If they take care of home and children, people say they’re doing their duty. If they take a career and spend little or no time at home, then people say that these women are obviously doing all they can.
In short, Chinese men are having it rough now and it’s about time, if you ask me, considering the rough deal Chinese women had got in our long history.
Anyways, I am making a sweeping generalization of the situation here. It doesn’t have to be true with you. You and your family don’t have to be the same.
Whatever the situation, don’t act like the moaner chess player. Don’t spend all day moaning that it is always you who gets the raw deal.
OK?
Alright. Here are media examples of other people who get the raw deal:
1. Willie Nelson says the Dixie Chicks “got a raw deal” from a disapproving public following their criticism of President Bush.
“I think the fact that they were overseas and onstage had a little bit to do with it because you’re speaking to other people about our business,” the 73-year-old country crooner said in an interview in this week’s Time magazine.
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