How can I stop worrying about things that are beyond my control?
我怎样才能不再为超出我能力范围的事担心?
获得43.8k好评的回答@Dushka Zapata:
This is my favorite fortune cookie prediction ever and I carry it with me always.
这是我最喜欢的幸运饼干预测(西方中餐馆给客人的包有预测未来运气小纸条的小饼干),我总是带在身边。
(你正在为永远不会发生的事担心)
You see, I used to be a worrier.
跟你说,我过去总是忧心忡忡。
I worried all the time. I worried that something was going to happen to someone I loved, or that something was going to happen to me. I worried that my family was not safe in Mexico City (where I'm from). I worried that I forgot to close the garage door.
我总是在担心。我担心我所爱的人会发生什么事,或者我自己会发生什么事,我担心家人在墨西哥城不安全(我就来自那里),我担心自己忘关车库门。
Why was it hard for me to even consider letting go of something that could be making me sick?
为什么连考虑一下放下这些让我头疼的事对我来说都很难?
Because, even though for a long time I couldn't articulate this, I somehow believed that if I worried about something, I could prevent it. Yup. I believed that most things I worried about wouldn't happen precisely because I worried about them. I saw my worry as a sort of protective shield, an undetectable force that swirled around the people that I loved and accompanied them wherever they went like an aura/guardian, like a halo on an angel’s head.
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