It's natural for parents to want to protect their kids from harm. But it's important to help them develop the skills needed to grow into independent adults. Otherwise, say University of Granada researchers, they may develop "Peter Pan syndrome": the desire to stay in adolescence forever, avoiding life's responsibilities and challenges.
父母想要保护自己的小孩不受伤害,这很正常。但帮助他们学习独立成年人所需的技能也是很重要的。否则,格拉纳达大学的研究人员说道,他们可能会发展"彼得潘综合症":希望自己一直停留在青春期,逃避生活中的责任和挑战。
Everything's OK-I'm not upset
一切都很好--我没有不高兴
Parents are often advised not to let their children see when they're upset. But a new study from the University of Toronto says hiding feelings can impede a "high quality parent-child bond" and also make the parent feel worse. Researchers say gently acknowledging the feelings in terms a child can understand may be the better approach.
家长经常听到这样的建议:不要让孩子看到自己不高兴的一面。但多伦多大学的一项新研究表明:隐藏情感会阻碍"浓厚的亲子关系",也会让父母的感受更糟。研究员说,以孩子能懂的方式委婉的承认自己的感受可能会更好。
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