自恋狂不善于正面对抗,Durvasul说道。既然他们内心住着恶霸,"他们实际上比我们大多数人都更肮脏、更凶狠,"她警告称。这并不是说你必须保持缄默。相反,你可以婉转一点,比如,"我知道你的意思,但我的想法和你稍有不同……"
"What's the matter with you?"
"你怎么回事?"
Ask the question as much as you want in your head, but resist the urge to blurt it out. "Narcissists have fragile self-esteem and never like being viewed as 'less than,' even though that's how they leave everyone else feeling," says Durvasula. (And let's be honest-asking this of anyone will put them on the defensive.)
你可以在脑海里尽情提问,但一定要抑制问出口的冲动。"自恋狂的自尊心很脆弱,不喜欢被人看低,尽管他们给我们的感觉的确如此,"Durvasul说道。(说实话--这句话会让任何人处于防守状态。)
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