想想所有他/她带给你的痛苦。
Take a deep, cleansing breath and savor your freedom.
深呼吸,净化思想,尽情享受自由。
Reclaim all the things that you gave up to satisfy your Narcissistic lover.
重拾所有为了满足你所爱的自恋者而放弃的东西。
Sum up what you have learned from this experience.
总结这段经历中你学到了什么。
Apply what you have learned and look for a new, non-Narcissistic lover.
运用你所学到的一切找一个新的不自恋的爱人。
Remind yourself that you became emotionally attached to a delightful fantasy. The real person was the one who kept hurting you.
提醒自己你迷上的是愉快的幻想,而那个人则一直在伤害你。
Punchline: There are many charming, attractive people who are better admired at a distance. When we take them home, they take over. Better a bit of emotional pain now, than a lifetime of it.
结束语:有很多迷人的、有魅力的人只能远远地欣赏,带回家后他们就会掌控一切。长痛不如短痛。
获得124好评的回答@ Sheeba Bhaskaran:
I think you know the answer. A narcissist is busy with his own self. It's just that you are trying to cling on to that person whereas you very well know that he is not capable of satisfying you emotionally. So pls take a reality check and come out of it. Relationships are all about give and take and it starts becoming a pain when it is a one way drive.
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