7. What are their friends and family like?

对方的朋友和家人是什么样子的？

People aren't always a mirror image of their friends and family, but in general, you can tell a lot about a person from who they choose to hang out with, and where they came from.

人们不会都和自己的家人朋友一个样，但总体而言，你可以通过对方交往的人和家庭出身了解到很多。

"If you meet someone's friends and you think they're the worst people you've ever met, it might be a bit of a red flag of what you're missing of the person," Stott said. "Is there a side to them I haven't quite seen yet?"

斯托特说：“如果你见了对方的朋友后，认为他们是你所见过的最糟糕的人，这是个危险信号，说明你可能看走了眼。也许对方有不为你所知的另一面？”

The same goes for them meeting your friends. While you're wearing the rose-tinted glasses during the honeymoon period, it can be tempting to dismiss things that would bother you further down the line. Your friends won't be so easily fooled.

让对方见你的朋友也能有所发现。正处于恋爱甜蜜期的你戴着玫瑰色眼镜，很容易忽视对方身上那些以后会让你烦恼的缺点。但你的朋友可没那么好糊弄。

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