When someone close to you has something terrible or sad happen to them, it's tough to know exactly what to do or say.
当你亲近的人遇到一些可怕或悲伤的事,你是否很惆怅不知道该做或说什么。
The keys are to be specific, don't dismiss or gloss over what's happening, and always keep an open ear. Here's what we mean.
关键是要提供具体建议,不要忽视或掩盖发生的事情,并始终保持聆听。可如何做到这几点呢?
Marie Forleo lays out specific tips for when someone close to you gets serious health news, has a loved one die, or suffers another loss. Throughout all these sad scenarios, there are a few common do's and don'ts.
当亲近的人得知自己有严重的健康问题,或他心爱的人去世,或遭受了一项损失,玛丽·福莱奥给出了上述这些问题的具体提示。在所有这些悲伤的情况下,有常见的几点是该做和不该做的。
1.Do offer specific help.
1.请提供具体的帮助。
While telling someone to "let them know if there's anything you can do" is generous, helping them and offering help in specific ways makes them more likely to take you up on your offer.
虽然告诉某人"让他们知道你能做什么"很慷慨,但帮助他们,并以具体的方式提供帮助,会令他们更有可能接受你的帮助。
2.Don't dismiss or gloss over their experience.
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