茫茫人海中遇到一个自己真心喜欢的人很难得,沉醉在爱情中的你开始幻想和对方步入婚姻殿堂,但是——且慢!那个人真的适合做你的终身伴侣吗?七夕节打算求爱或被求爱的你,在做出承诺之前,有几件事是你必须弄清楚的。
1. Firstly, ask them what they're looking for.
弄清对方为什么选择你
"You don't need to ask if they want to go out with you straight away," said Claire Stott, a data analyst at dating app Badoo. "But you can say 'Are you in the market for looking for something?' or 'What are you looking for?' And this gives you an indicator of whether they're looking for something a bit more than something lighthearted."
约会应用Badoo的数据分析师克莱尔·斯托特说:“你不用直接问对方为什么想和你在一起,但你可以用这种方式提问:你为什么来相亲?你想找个什么样的伴侣?通过这种问题,你就能知道对方是否只是随便玩玩。
They might be honest and tell you they're not looking for anything serious — and that's fine. But they might also say they are willing to settle for the right person, which gives you the indication you're not wasting your time. It's rather that than finding out later on that you were one of seven other people they were hanging out with.
他们也许坦诚相告,说自己不是在找结婚对象,这也没事。不过他们也许会说,如果遇到对的人他们也愿意安定下来,暗示你没有在浪费时间。现在就问清楚,总比后来才发现对方同时在跟好几个人约会要好。
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