1. "我的老板不尊重我。"

Shift response: "I went through the exact same thing last year. I wound up leaving and finding a better job."

抢话题式回应："我去年也经历了这样的事情。最后离职了，找了份更好的工作。"

Support response: "I'm sorry to hear that. What makes you feel that way?"

支持性的回应："听到这种事我很难过，你现在怎么想的？"

2. "If I could just get organized, I'd have the world on a string."

2. "如果我可以做到井然有序，世界就尽在我的掌控之中。"

Shift response: "I know--I have the same problem."

抢话题式回应："我知道--我跟你有一样的毛病。"

Support response: "What do you think stops you from being organized?"

支持性回应："你觉得导致你杂乱无章的原因是什么？"

3. "I'm so sad since my breakup."

3. "分手后我很难过。"

Shift response: "You just need to get back out there and start dating again."

抢话题式回应："你只需要从这段感情中走出来，开始约会。"

Support response: "What do you think stops you from being able to move forward?"

支持性回应："生活还得继续，你觉得你为什么会这样？"

Derber calls the whole phenomenon, at least the part in which well-meaning people shift the discussion to their own experience, "conversational narcissism."

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