而这一次，她给了Emma一些实用的建议，而这些建议也值得所有20多岁的年轻人来听听。

❶ To forget about having an identity crisis and get some identity capital.

忘掉身份危机，获得一些身份资本。

By getting identity capital, I mean do something that adds value to who you are.

获得身份资本，是指做些可以增加你自身价值的事。

❷ The urban tribe is overrated.

不要局限于你的核心小圈子。

urban tribe：住在大城市的年轻人组成的小圈子。

New pieces of capital and new people to date almost always come from outside the inner circle. New things come from what are called our weak ties.

新的资本，新的约会对象大都来自圈外。新事物正是来自所谓的弱关系里。

❸ The time to start choosing your family is now.

现在是时候选择你自己的家庭了。

The best time to work on your marriage is before you have one, and that means being as intentional with love as you are with work.

考虑婚姻问题的最佳时间是开始婚姻前，这意味着像挑选工作那样有意识地挑选爱情。

总之，不要指望30岁弥补20岁的缺失，好好把握20多岁的时光。

Thirty is not the new 20, so claim your adulthood, get some identity capital, use your weak ties, pick your family. Don't be defined by what you didn't know or didn't do. You're deciding your life right now.

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