Tara Vossenkemper, the founder, clinical director, and therapist at The Counseling Hub, told INSIDER that you might not realize that your partner loves you as much as they do because they're showing you love in the way that they receive, not in the way that you do.

咨询俱乐部（The Counseling Hub）的创始人、临床主任和治疗师Tara Vossenkemper对INSIDER杂志说道，你觉得另一半没有你爱他/她那么爱你，可能是因为他在按照自己被爱的方式而非你爱他的方式来爱你。

"So if I am a person who, I give love by doing things for somebody else, but my partner receives love through, maybe, compliments or little notes here and there or pretty much nice, kind words, then he or she will never really receive love in the way I'm giving it," Vossenkemper explained. Asking yourself what your partner asks for (like hugs) can help you determine how they receive love. Then, reflecting on if that's what they're often doing for you can help you sort out if that's what going on or not.

"所以，如果我是那种为别人做事来表达自己爱意的人，而另一半可能是通过表扬、时不时收到便签纸或善意的话语感受到爱意，那他/她可能永远都不会感受到我表达的爱意，"Vossenkemper解释道。问问自己你的另一半想要什么（比如拥抱），这会帮助你了解他们感受爱意的方式。之后再想一想他们是不是经常这样对你，你就能明白到底他/她爱不爱你啦。

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