Sometimes, we parents need to "re-frame" the truth in our quest to protect, nurture, and challenge our children. Sometimes, these trickeries are told for the greater good. Sometimes, they're more right than wrong, even when they're technically more wrong than right. Sometimes, it's ok to fudge just a smidge.
有时候,身为父母的我们需要在保护、培养和挑战孩子的过程中"重构"真理。有时候,谎言能带来更多的益处。有时候,撒谎是正确而非错误做法,即使从技术层面而言,撒谎的确是错误行为。有时候,撒点小谎也无伤大雅。
Parents, your children look to you for guidance and for comfort-to learn the ropes in this big, crazy world. Use your power of wisdom-and slightly altered reality-to do just that.
家长们,在了解并探索这一庞大而又疯狂的世界的过程中,你的孩子正等着你给予指导和安慰。利用你的聪明才智--略微改变现实--行动起来吧!
1. "I love it."
1. "我很喜欢。"
Even if their style isn't your style, let them know it's okay to experiment with different colored socks, different kinds of hair, just being different.
即使你不喜欢他们的风格,但也要让他/她知道:为了与众不同,他们是可以尝试穿不同颜色的袜子、剪另类的发型的。
2. "It sounded beautiful!"
2. "你唱的真好听!"
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