有这10个特点的人最讨人喜欢，你占了几个？_公共英语阅读理解

有这10个特点的人最讨人喜欢，你占了几个？

如果你想让你周围的人快乐，就努力展示积极的情绪吧。

4. Reveal your flaws from time to time

偶尔暴露自己的缺点

According to the pratfall effect, people will like you more after you make a mistake — but only if they believe you are a competent person. Revealing that you aren't perfect makes you more relatable and vulnerable toward the people around you.

根据“仰巴脚效应”，对于优秀的人来说，一些微小的失误会增加别人对他们的好感，因为展示出不完美的一面会让他们与别人更加亲近。

Researcher Elliot Aronson asked male students from the University of Minnesota to listen to tape recordings of people taking a quiz.

研究员Elliot Aronson邀请了几位来自明尼苏达大学的男同学参与试验，要求他们收听一段测验时的录音。

When people did well on the quiz but spilled coffee at the end of the interview, the students rated them higher on likability than when they did well on the quiz and didn't spill coffee or didn't do well on the quiz and spilled coffee.

实验结果表明，男同学们更喜欢那些虽然笔试成绩优秀，但是在面试的最后阶段弄洒咖啡的人，而不是那些笔试面试都完美无缺、或者表现都不好的人。

5. Casually touch them

不时进行身体接触

Subliminal touching occurs when you touch a person so subtly that they barely notice. Common examples include tapping someone's back or touching their arm, which can make them feel more warmly toward you.