一个由德保尔大学和伊利诺伊州立大学开展的研究发现,在第一次见面时展现出幽默感的人会给对方留下很好的印象。
In fact, the study suggested that participating in a humorous task (like having someone wear a blindfold while the other person teaches them a dance) can increase romantic attraction.
事实上,这一研究发现一些有趣的活动(譬如蒙住眼睛,在对方的指导下跳舞)往往可以使异性之间相互吸引。
7. See the other person how they want to be seen
以对方期待的方式来看待他们
People want to be perceived in a way that aligns with their own beliefs about themselves. This phenomenon is described by self-verification theory. We all seek confirmations of our views, positive or negative.
每个人都希望他人对自己的看法和自己对自己的看法是一致的。这一现象被称为“自我验证理论”。无论评价是积极还是消极,我们每时每刻都在寻求外界对自己想法的认同。
For a series of studies at Stanford University and the University of Arizona, participants with positive and negative perceptions of themselves were asked whether they wanted to interact with people who had positive or negative impressions of them.
斯坦福大学和亚利桑那大学开展了的一系列的相关研究,将参与者分为自我评价较高和较低的两部分,并询问这两组人更喜欢与赞美他们的人交往还是批评他们的人交往。
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