The participants with positive self-views preferred people who thought highly of them, while those with negative self-views preferred critics. This could be because people like to interact with those who provide feedback consistent with their known identity.
自我评价较高的人喜欢赞美他们的人,然而对自己有负面评价的人更喜欢批评他们的人。这是因为每个人都喜欢与和自己想法一致的人相处。
8. Tell them a secret
分享秘密
Self-disclosure may be one of the best relationship-building techniques.
自我坦白或许是建立友谊最好的方式。
You can try this technique on your own as you're getting to know someone. For example, you can build up from asking easy questions (like the last movie they saw) to learning about the people who mean the most to them in life.
你可以在和对方初次见面的时候试试这个技巧。你可以先问一些简单的问题(比如他们上次看的电影)来了解哪些事物在对方生活中占据着重要的位置。
When you share intimate information with another person, they are more likely to feel closer to you and want to confide in you in the future.
当你与他人分享私人信息时,他们会感觉与你更加亲近,并会更加信赖你。
9. Show that you can keep their secrets, too
保守秘密
Two experiments led by researchers at the University of Florida, Arizona State University, and Singapore Management University found that people place a high value on both trustworthiness in their relationships.
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