• Two, make a life-long commitment to help kids in Rebecca's memory. Soccer coach, scout leading, any volunteer mentoring that he would be good at. Do it willingly, for Rebecca.
二、为了怀念Rebecca,承诺一生帮助儿童。从事足球教练、童子军领队、或者其他任何擅长的志愿服务。为了Rebecca而心甘情愿地付出。
• Three, he must man up and tell the truth about what happened. We acknowledge there will be consequences and would ask the court to be lenient but accept that he is liable for Rebecca's death.
三、他必须像个男子汉那样说出事情的真相。他会受到惩罚,但我们会请求法院给予宽恕,不过是在他承认对Rebecca的死有责的前提下。
失去女儿而伤心欲绝的父母是经过了艰难的心理斗争才得以心平气和地对待同罪魁祸首(took 'great steps' to be at peace with him and what he had done),而他们最终并没有选择将他打入深渊,而是给了他重生的机会,他们对于forgiveness的理解也发人深思:
'If he does these things we will forgive him, just as he must forgive himself.'
“如果他能履行这些,我们便原谅他,就像他必须原谅自己那样。”
'Forgiveness does not mean to forget but rather embrace the challenge of living wholesomely for them both.'
“原谅并不代表忘却,而是拥抱生活带来的挑战,为了自己也为了逝去的人,好好活下去。”
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