3. Fatalism- Fatalism is a way people rationalize despair. After a particularly hard failure you’ll hear people say thinks like, “I guess God just wants me to be a ditch digger.” Or, “This must be my lot in life.” These people see their destiny as fixed. The problem is, if you think your destiny is determined by someone or something else, you’ve lost all power in your life. You’ll never improve because you don’t think anything you do will help. This way of thinking can lead to depression in a hurry. Don’t think for a second that you deserve any less than the very best in life!
宿命论是人们合理化绝望的一个借口。在经历过惨痛的失败后,你会听到一些人说“我猜想上帝只是想让我去成为一个挖沟工人。”又或者,“这就是我的命吧。”。这些人把自己的命运看成是固定的。问题就在于,如果你认为你的命运是由某人或者某事主宰的,你就会失去生命中的力量。你永远也不会进步,因为你不相信自己做的任何尝试会带来积极的改变。这种思维方式会很快地导致抑郁症。决不能那样想:你不值得获得生命中最美妙的东西。
The best thing to combat fear, despair, and fatalism is knowledge. The more you analyze a fear, the more you realize how irrational it is. Then the fear loses power over you. The more you know about why you failed, the less likely you are to make the same mistake again. Failures become learning experiences. Finally, if you take time to learn about yourself and think about why you deserve to succeed, you become less and less likely to accept your “lot in life” and demand more.
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