3. Celebrate—maybe even take a vacation.You probably didn't take time away while you were at your last job—use this period of adjustment to break free. It'll give you a chance to get some perspective. Have drinks or a party and celebrate being laid off. Put a positive spin on this. Enjoy yourself. This will be one of the few times in life that you're unencumbered by work. Read. Sleep. Do all the things you never get to do...believe it or not, you'll miss this time when it's gone.
庆祝一下—甚至可以去度个假。在你还没失去工作的时候,你可能没有时间休息--利用这段时间去呼吸一下新鲜空气,欣赏一下美景。喝上一杯,或是开个舞会,为自己的失业庆祝一下。看的开点。活的开心点。这可能是你一生中为数不多的几次机会,可以不受工作的约束。看书。睡觉。做所有以前没做过的事情……不管你信不信,你会怀念这段时光的。
4. Realize that something good will come from this (I call this The Change Guarantee).Write it down somewhere visible. In the end, this job loss is probably a good thing. Make yourself write a list of 3 things that help you see the upside from this downside. You'll end up better off, no matter what. You may not see it now, but you'll triumph over this job loss in ways you couldn't imagine.
情况必定会好转(我称之为改变的保证)。在显眼的地方写下来。最后,失去工作会变成一件好事。写下三件能让你从逆境中看到希望的事情。最终你会受益,不管是什么。可能现在你没发觉,但是你会以想象不到的方式战胜失业。 5. Always frame things in the positive.Say things like "I'm excited I'm back in the job market. It has given me a chance to really go after a job that I love," as opposed to, "I recently got fired/lost my job." People who are optimists and have positive beliefs will always get through this change better than others.
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