如何才能与孩子一起愉快用餐?_BEC初级作文

如何才能与孩子一起愉快用餐?

这些关键词“你必须”和“我们”，不仅清晰简明地传达了规则里所蕴含的价值。与此同时，使得每个人融入到家庭之中，而不仅仅是责备或贬低。当你的孩子听到“我们”这个词，他们听到的是“哦，原来如此，我的家人是这么做的。”而不是“我又没有做对。”

If your child continues to misbehave or break a rule after this reminder then you can use my 4 Step Discipline Technique.

如果提醒之后，小孩继续调皮捣蛋或者无视规则。那么，你可以采用我提出的四步自律原则。

A couple of other things to make sure meal time is relaxing:Ease up. Gradually give your baby (child) the opportunity to experience independence because it's what they crave. As soon as your baby can sit upright, without additional support, bring the high chair to the table. Let her feed herself as much as possible – with finger foods to start off with.When she’s big enough, give her a booster seat. Try not to make a 2 1/2 or 3 year old be stuck in a high chair drinking from a bottle or sippy cup – they are beyond this. It's okay though to have a 2 – 2 1/2 year old wear a bib until they can show you they don't need it, but try to allow them to practice being independent. Use a speaking object, if necessary. Sometimes families, larger ones especially, struggle because everyone wants to speak at the same time. Decide as a family on what object could be used to show whose turn it is to talk. It could be the salt shaker or something more special like a shell someone found on a family holiday. Pass this object around to ensure that only the person with it in front of them is speaking. Use these tips and tricks consistently and I guarantee that meal times will become one of your most favourite times of the day!