产生不忠行为的原因有很多,比如说报复,无聊,性的新鲜感所带来的刺激,性成瘾等。但专家认为大多数时候,不忠行为的动机因男女而有差异,男人更多的是寻求性或者关注,而女人是为了填补情感的空虚。
"Women tell me, 'I was lonely, not connected, I don't feel close to my partner, and I was taken for granted,'" says Winifred Reilly, MA, MFT, a licensed marriage and family therapist in Berkeley, Calif. "They say they wanted to have someone who would look into their eyes and make them feel sexy again."
加利福尼亚州伯克利市的一位有执照的婚姻家庭方面的临床医师,威妮弗蕾德 蕾利说,女人们总是告诉我说:我很孤单,没有朋友,和爱人也非常冷淡,总是被对方熟视无睹。她们想要有人能直视她们的眼睛,重新唤起她们的激情。
Emotional Reasons
情绪上的原因
Every affair is different, and so are every woman's reasons for her involvement.
每一场外遇都是不同的,女人们的理由也各不相同。
That said, men are more likely to cite sexual motivations for infidelity and are less likely to fall in love with an extramarital partner, says Helen Fisher, PhD, a biological anthropologist at Rutgers University and the author of Why Him? Why Her? and Why We Love.
罗格斯大学的人类学家海伦 费舍尔博士,著有《他?她?我们为什么相爱》一书,她说,男人更倾向于把性作为不忠行为的动机,并且较少会与婚外情的另一半真的坠入爱河。
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